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Private invitations that match your preferences. Raise your hand only when an invite feels right.

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Type Which town Timing

Town choices come from your private home base and the selected reach.

Matching respects your preferences and the inviter's fit settings. No public guest list.

Private member controls

Private controls

Membership, billing, defaults, and optional signals stay operational and private.

Host approved Charter member

Membership

Activate after approval

Host approved

Your host approval is ready Choose a membership term and add a card. Invite access starts after payment is complete.

Membership covers access only. When you create an invite, you are responsible for the real-world outing costs. The platform does not sell tickets, hold deposits, split tabs, or collect event money.

Billing

Card and renewal

Card on file

Current term Charter membership

Renewal Renews Jan 8, 2027

Card Visa ending 4242

Status Active

Billing portal Update card, view invoices, change term, or cancel renewal in a secure Stripe-hosted portal.

Cancellation and refund terms are shown before payment and in the billing portal. Membership may be cancelled for future renewal; any refund exceptions are handled by policy review.

Notifications

Private reminders

Private wording

Notifications ask for action without exposing hidden people. Names, photos, attendance, and one-sided interest stay out of channel previews until the consent workflow allows them.

In-app indicators Always on for invites, confirmations, validation, billing, and safety checks. Email for deadlines Digest-style reminders for expiring response windows, billing action, and confirmed invite details. Text for urgent windows Only for last-minute confirmations, extension decisions, and safety check-ins.

Example wording: "Action needed on a private invite before early evening." Channel previews should not include hidden recipient names, public guest lists, or private intent.

Private info

About me

Private

Jerry B. Approved member · Charter term

This is not a public profile. Hosts and mutually confirmed members only see the parts needed for a consented outing.

Profile photo Shown only when this card is visible after consent. Photo URL Prototype field for adding or changing the image.

Display name shown Shown only after this consent flow allows it. Member ID shown Prototype receipt ID, not a public directory handle. Visibility badge Explains why the card can be seen.

Private home base for matching. This drives Very local, My normal orbit, and Worth the drive town choices. It is not shown on your member preview.

Home base town Used only to route nearby invites. Home ZIP Prototype stand-in for address verification. Precise location Never appears on the public-facing preview.

I am My actual age Shown to others as 45-54 My stature words Shown to others as stature hidden My build words Shown to others as build hidden My lifestyle words Shown as a broad fit cue only. My relationship openness Used for fit, not public browsing.

My words What helps me say yes

Preferences

Invite defaults

Used by Create

These prefill invites you create. You can still customize one invite without changing these defaults.

Invite default intent Invite default people fit Invite default age fit Invite default stature fit Invite default build fit Invite default lifestyle Invite default relationship

Familiar Faces

People I have met

Member controlled

Open to repeat outings Familiar Faces can be suggested again when both people left repeat visibility on.

Paula Open to repeat · music and small groups Met at a prior dinner. Contact still hidden until a new outing is confirmed.

Thomas Morning invites only · Boca / Delray Prior outing closed positively. Repeat visibility is still member controlled.

Private availability

Open Now signal

Off by default

Use this when you are open within the next few hours. Choose how long you are open using human timing labels, not exact times. It never creates a public availability post, public profile listing, or public guest list.

No active signal You can still receive matching invites from your normal preferences. Nothing extra is showing.

If turned on Now through evening · Boca / Delray · standing preferences still apply

Only matching inviters or hosts could use it after a real invite has enough details.

What sounds good? Required

I'd like to watch or listen for live music.

Date Required

July 2026 Friday, Jul 10

Next 30 days

When Required Choose a broad part of the day. Exact times come later only when needed.

Invite area Required Where the outing would happen. Invite style Required

Payment rule Inviter pays First outing rule Public meet-there required

Texting is optional. Tap "I'm open" -> mutual confirmation -> details/contact unlock only when both confirm. Members can text after that if they both want to.

Help them decide Required Add the details someone needs to say "I'm open": venue clue, style, parking, accessibility, timing context, and anything that makes the invite feel easy to accept.

Suggested fit

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Tap Fit details to understand why someone can receive this invite.

Private routing

Start with eligible member cards, then add Familiar Faces, open members, or private host routing.

People I have met People you met before where both sides were open to another outing. 5 ready People already open Members who already shared an open signal for this kind of invite and timing. 11 open Private host routing Hosts can route this invite without revealing hidden recipients. private

We will ask suggested eligible people and allow private host routing.

Invite fit

Using saved invite defaults.

Customize this invite Start from saved invite defaults, then adjust this invite. Recipient preferences still come first.

Intent for this invite People fit Age fit Stature fit Build fit Lifestyle fit Relationship fit Answer by

Save as future invite defaults Use these preferences to prefill the next invites you create.

Saved invite defaults keep the private invite from getting too narrow.

Privacy

Private invite

No public search, no guest list, no required chat. People appear only through consented visibility or private routing.

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